Kissing, hugging, and some places even holding hands. You might
get away with linking arms, but that’s about it. The exception is when
greeting: In Qatar, men and women greet friends of the same sex with three
kisses on the cheek.
It’s not uncommon for people to call the moral police and dob on
anyone seen breaking this rule. The result is jail time.
All media abide by these policies, too. Models in magazines often
have clothing drawn on, and any sexy-time scenes in movies are censored,
especially if the characters aren’t married. Ever tried to watch The Reader in the Middle East? Yeah, that movie
made no sense to me.
2. No shoulders
And no knees either. This one is tricky and has caused a lot of
debate recently as public consensus becomes more lax. However, even though you
may see the occasional pair of hot pants, expats are expected to dress modestly
in all public areas, even in 40°C temperatures.
You need permission from your employer in the
form of a letter if you want to buy a car, take out a loan, or rent an
apartment.
If you’re found to be scantily clad you could be fined or, at the
very least, security will ask you to leave the mall/office/souq you’re in. If
you escape these guys, don’t think you’re in the clear. Locals especially don’t
take very kindly to women flouting the dress code — expect some very unfriendly
stares. As I always say, you don’t make friends with spaghetti straps!
3. No travel abroad without your boss’s permission
Ah, the exit permit. If you want to travel outside the country,
you first have to arrange for the company you work for — your “sponsor” — to
grant you an exit permit, which you must present at customs with your passport.
No permit, no travel.
You also need permission from your employer in the form of a
letter if you want to buy a car, take out a loan, or rent an apartment.
4. No booze
Well, kind of. Alcohol is served in hotels of 4 stars and above.
We’re allowed to purchase booze for private consumption at home, but you need —
you guessed it — a letter from your employer giving you permission to get a
license first.
There’s only one store in Qatar that sells alcohol, and once
inside you can only spend 10% of your monthly wage. Once the booze is bought,
you must travel straight home, do not pass go, and do not distribute it to
anyone else. This all sounds pretty strict but, to be honest, we’re lucky we’re
allowed to drink at all. Our neighbors in Saudi Arabia aren’t so fortunate.
5. No phones at the gym
I go to a women-only gym. Just to get in the front door, I have to
hand over my mobile phone and go through an LAX-style security screening while
my body and bag are searched for hidden cameras or phones.
In areas that are for ladies only, women remove their veils and
abayas, opting for more activity-appropriate clothing. Can you imagine trying
to do a spin class in a floor-length skirt? Ergo, all photo-taking devices must
be checked at the door.
6. No nudity in the change rooms
Throw the finger, and you’ll get arrested.
Even when you’re in a women-only changing room (such as at the
pool), you’ll undress in a separate private cubicle. Signs state that others
around you may find nudity offensive.
7. No sick people
If you want to live here, you have to be healthy. Expats applying
for residency in Qatar must first pass a medical test that screens for
tuberculosis, hepatitis, and HIV.
You’d think that, in a country where around 80% of the residents
are expats, they’d have streamlined this process, but no. The day I went for my
medical tests involved being herded into a crowded room, standing in a queue
for 3 hours without instruction, and getting yelled at in Arabic. Not the funniest
day out.
8. No flipping the bird
Forbidden in Qatar. The most obvious place where this is a problem
is on the road, because traffic in Doha is absolutely horrendous. Throw the
finger, and you’ll get arrested.
Actually, I’d say no hand signs in general while driving. Most expats
have a strict ‘hands on the wheel at all times’ policy, because if you so much
as wave a thank you to someone it could be misconstrued as a gesture of
disrespect.
9. No complaining
My
personal addition. Despite the initial inconveniences of the above rules, once
you get used to them they have very little impact on daily life. And life here
is good — the weather’s nice, we don’t pay taxes, and the culture seems to have
mastered the work/life balance.
damn right!
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